WE'RE ALL BEAUTIFUL
People that are fully happy with their life, have reached a level of content and are simply beautiful do not take the time to to demean other people's appearances. Why would they? What would be the point of a very pretty woman that owned her beauty take the time to stop and point out the next woman's flaws? It doesn't happen. Fulfilled people spend their time and energy enjoying life. So, I would say that the main way to protect your self esteem is to realize that your attackers are damaged themselves.
Your aggressor is concealing their insecurities by focusing on what they consider to be yours. As Christina Aguilera once sang about men that called her derogatory names, "You must talk so big, to make up for smaller things." I completely believe that women attack other women's looks because they view that woman as a threat. They hurl insults to break the other woman, to make the other woman cave in and hide.
Now, that we have figured out their mindsets - how do we address it? You have to remember that your "flaw" is mostly likely something they want you to feel bad about and hide. For me, I would be attacked for my wide hips and full lips. The way to counter it, is to simply WERK IT. It's you and it isn't going to change or go anywhere. For me, that meant red and plum lipstick. That was topped off with stretch pants to work those hips. They will die on the insides at your strength.
Once, you've determined what you're going to accent - it's time to work on your mental. True beauty comes from what type of person you are. At the end of the day, your heart and soul are what matters. Focus on being a great person and you will attract good people. You can be as fine as you want and repel people by being an ugly human being.
Your aggressor is concealing their insecurities by focusing on what they consider to be yours. As Christina Aguilera once sang about men that called her derogatory names, "You must talk so big, to make up for smaller things." I completely believe that women attack other women's looks because they view that woman as a threat. They hurl insults to break the other woman, to make the other woman cave in and hide.
Now, that we have figured out their mindsets - how do we address it? You have to remember that your "flaw" is mostly likely something they want you to feel bad about and hide. For me, I would be attacked for my wide hips and full lips. The way to counter it, is to simply WERK IT. It's you and it isn't going to change or go anywhere. For me, that meant red and plum lipstick. That was topped off with stretch pants to work those hips. They will die on the insides at your strength.
Once, you've determined what you're going to accent - it's time to work on your mental. True beauty comes from what type of person you are. At the end of the day, your heart and soul are what matters. Focus on being a great person and you will attract good people. You can be as fine as you want and repel people by being an ugly human being.